With the Utensilgiving, and other meet up's I am planning, they will all be private since I'm getting annoyed by some of the people who go to my public meetings, in which I say this now, if you get a PM from me with an invitation for Utensilgiving, then you can go, but I'd need for you to print it off, and give it to me, also, if you recieve one, you can't give one to another person, ie. print one off and change the name, since I will have a list of who's supposed to be there. Also, if you do not have a printer, there is a printer at your local library, and if you can put the invite on an Ipod/some sort of display is also acceptable, so long as I can see the invite, your good to go.