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Offline Animeman73

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My Mother is going to have surgery.
« on: June 20, 2012, 06:09:25 pm »
Hey everyone, this is a...difficult subject for me to talk about but....I REALLY could use your thoughts and prayers. On July 5th of this year my mother is going into the hospital for surgery. She has gall bladder stones, and kidney cancer. This is hard because while I know my mother will one day pass from this mortal plane I don't want it to be anytime in the near future, I owe my Mom and my stepfather so much. They gave me a place to live when my biological was going to head off to Kuwait, they gave me the dignity to grow up and become my own man, and they've just been there for me. And now with my Mom having cancer this scares the living daylights out of me. Everytime the hospital is mentioned I get nervous I've been this way ever since I lost my maternal grandma due to complications of Diabetes back in 96.  

Vampires, werewolves, zombies, rakshasas, blood-sucking aliens they're all scary but they're nothing when compared with that monster called cancer. Just thinking about it makes me cry because I'm really, really scared for her. Yes I'm a man and I cry, this is my mother I'm talking about here. I know she's going to have good medical care but still I can't help but be frightened, this is cancer we're talking about cancer kills more people than anything. All your thoughts and prayers would be apprciated.

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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #1 on: June 20, 2012, 06:29:02 pm »
Got mine, Just spend your days with her as much as you can rember to tell them how much you love them talk about thinks you want to talk about that you thougth you never could rember. life is short and we have to live it to the fullest

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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #2 on: June 20, 2012, 11:41:53 pm »
i will ask pepole to pray for her during church service

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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #3 on: June 21, 2012, 09:02:32 am »
Sending positive thoughts and prayers your families way
Also in stressful times be sure to take care of your self as well, as I know it's easy to over look
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #4 on: June 22, 2012, 02:35:46 pm »
Good luck!
My thoughts will be with you.
I had a little scare a lot like this a little while back, my grandma was going in for testing for heart failure. She's been in my life since I was born and despite I may complain about her sometimes I love her lots.
What I did was sent her a few loving texts and emails telling her how I loved her, you should do the same.
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #5 on: July 05, 2012, 07:51:19 am »
Thanks to everyone who's written on this thread offering their best wishes. My Mom is going in for her 1st surgery today. I'm scared, but I know this has to be done. Again your thoughts and prayeers would be apprciated. And thank you.
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« Reply #6 on: July 05, 2012, 07:28:34 pm »
Here's an update folks. My Mom is out of surgery and she's okay. As you can imagine I'm VERY relieved.
« Last Edit: July 05, 2012, 09:56:48 pm by Animeman73 »
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #7 on: July 05, 2012, 08:21:48 pm »
god bless

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« Reply #8 on: July 05, 2012, 09:19:32 pm »
Here's an update folks. My Mom is out of surgery and she's okay. AS you can imagine I'm VERY relieved.

AWWWWWWWW YEAH~!
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #9 on: September 16, 2012, 06:53:25 pm »
It's been a while since anyone posted here. But I'm happy to report that my mother has had her second surgery. Her gall bladder and her other kidney have been removed. The kidney that was already operated on is functioning normally. And the tumor found on the first kidney was benign. So my Mom will not have to go on dyalisis. Which is uis wonderful espcially considering in a year or two we want to go see the Falkirk wheel in Scotland.
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #10 on: September 16, 2012, 08:12:25 pm »
HURRAY!
That's super good to hear!
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #11 on: September 16, 2012, 08:39:29 pm »
yay

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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #12 on: September 16, 2012, 09:45:12 pm »
I'm really glad to hear that and I hope things continue to get better!

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« Reply #13 on: September 16, 2012, 10:34:23 pm »
Yay!!! That's great to hear!
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #14 on: September 17, 2012, 10:05:31 am »
Another update folks. The biopsy is in from the hospital. The tumor on my Mom's removed kidney is benign. However it had a massive potential for internal bleeding. So the doctors decision to remove the kidney was the right one. At least my family and i can relax because the surgery is over.
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Re: My Mother is going to have surgery.
« Reply #15 on: September 19, 2012, 11:43:32 pm »
I am very happy everything turned out well.  I work in a hospital and I always like to see people get better.  Your mom went through very scary stuff but sounds like you have a tough mom.

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« Reply #16 on: September 21, 2012, 07:44:17 pm »
And remember to take care
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