I would say taking responsibility for ones actions might help, but shifting the blame just makes things worse. I guess being a victim is the norm for society today, rather than taking responsibility.
I'll probably get deleted again, so I won't say anything about you personally OP, but this is true what I quoted..No one is saying that all the homestucks are bad. No one is saying YOU are bad. We are saying that the majority of the problems that happen are from that fandom. You may be the most mature one of them all, if so, awesome. I love seeing cosplayers that are also respectful. But you have to face fact that that one L cosplayer is not equivalent to 30 homestuck cosplayers doing the same thing..If you want to use math in this, that would make it at the very leave, only 1/30 of the death note fandom has pushed people against walls because they felt like it. Don't take personal offence..The people who get extremely defencive over something like that are usually the ones that ARE like that. You literally just said that what that ONE L cosplayer did to you matches up to what 30 of them did to us. It's unfair that you shoulld sit here and talk about how other fandoms have the same kind of people when it's been proven that the people in your fandom are worse. I asked you to supply evidence on your accusations..You not only didn't, but you ignored it completely..Because you already know you won't find any. I said before, I've seen bad people in other fandoms, yes..It happens, every fandom will have a few idiots that suck, but out of every single convention attendee that I've seen doing those things,more than 75% of them were homestuck cosplayers. Once other fandoms start causing the same amount of trouble as the homestucks, then you have ground to stand on for your little protest here. But until then, you're only proving our point..You are giving us a reason to state facts and evidence against you. If you really want the homestuck fandom to not be talked bad about, why not speak out against the bad ones rather than justifying their bad behavior? I bet it will go a lot better.
But please, for the love of god, don't blame other fandoms for being horrible people while trying to get others to stop saying it about yours. You can't make people stop talking crap WHILE talking crap..Make sense?